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Let go, move on!✨

Every person is a good book , and every book teaches us something . You can always learn something from a person .

In all our life we will come across a number of people . There are three types of people who come into our lives, some people come for a season , while some come for a reason and there are some who come for a lifetime. It is up to us how we prioritise people in our life.
It is very important that we give our time to the people who actually invest their time in us . The people we choose to be with, we gradually become like them . As it is said birds of a feather , flock together. Your friends and your relationships can change you alot , they have a great impact in your life.
Sometimes we give our priority to people who might be with us in our happy times but they leave us in our obnoxious times, and then we regret that we just wasted our time and our emotions. There are times when it becomes difficult for us to give our time to the correct people, we just need to understand that the people who are there with us when everyone else left and they supported us even if they could have made an excuse are the ones who are going to remain for a life time. People come and go in our life but what matters is that we should move on.
Sometimes we may get cheated or people would betray us or simply just leave us because they used us to the most they could , and these experiences can break us we might start losing ourselves , we might blame ourselves and believe that there is a problem in us, but it is up to us if we want to let ourselves shatter or we want to build ourselves even stronger . It takes experiences to be wise. Try to learn something from every person you meet even if someone has left you try to look at the positive side and think about what did that person teach you . It is easy to blame and look at the negative side of everything, but it takes a lot to stand up again , make yourself strong and look at the positive side of people.
These days we teenagers get depression , we feel lonely because we have probably been left by someone and they let themselves shatter. Remember” You have to be like iron only it’s own rust can destroy it , so there is no one who can destroy you but only you yourself can “. So start looking at everything with a positive sight and learn something from every book (person) you go through because they are definitely going to teach you something that will make you a better person , and you will soon be able to see that your insecurities turn into your strengths.

~Alfia⚡️

The reality of belief 💫

We make most mistakes, we suffer the most, and we do the most harm when our thoughts and beliefs differ from reality.  It’s when we create stories and assumptions in our own mind which are untrue that we begin on a journey of falsehoods. 

Yet, there is no such thing as reality.

Reality is an illusion, and it is.

Many people live in their own world, the world in which they want to believe in but it is also the world which doesn’t even EXIST and never will because when reality hits you, it hits you very hard and then you have no place to go or nothing to start with.

If your life is going down the shitter, if you are prey to addictions, if you suffer from a mental illness ~ then the chances are that your thoughts and beliefs have seriously differed from reality.

Einstein and other serious thinkers may tell us that reality is merely an illusion, BUT on a day to day basis we have to live in whatever reality surrounds us.  That means seeing and accepting reality as it is, and not as we wish it to be.  Reality is neutral and impersonal.  Reality has no expectations and no beliefs.  Reality is the true state of things.  There is only one past, present, and future reality ~ it is our own perceptions and beliefs which create an infinity of different versions of the past, the present, and the possible futures.

To find true reality is both very easy and very difficult;

• be totally honest with yourself and others ~ reality is truth

• never take things personally ~ reality is impersonal

• do not make assumptions nor create expectations

Some say that reality is an illusion.  And that we are all just simulations living in a matrix.  All I know is that when my beliefs differed from reality I got myself into some serious trouble.

~alfia♥️

If only

The saddest words in the English language. If only.

If only I’d known what I know now, if only I had done this or that, if only…

Regret comes in all shapes and sizes. And time passes and heals wounds, and, in the end, regret is the only thing that ties us to our past. Or to a better version of it.

That’s the thing about being human. You don’t only dream of a better future, but you also work really hard to imagine a better past. A different past. One that would provide all kinds of alternate outcomes and new meanings to who and where you are right now.

We change. The world changes around us. The people in our lives change as well. Nothing really stays the same, and that’s why we regret.

As a reminder that we used to be different. That our lives used to be different. And we play with this new version of who we are and we pretend that our present self could travel back in time and correct our mistakes.

“If only…”

And we call this regret.

And it hurts.

It hurts alot.

The awful truth about life is that it goes on. Whether you want it to or not; it just goes on.

But regret keeps us trapped in the past, trapped in this bizarre world that never even existed in the first place. A world of illusions, of impossible dreams, a world that’s never coming back.

In a way, if we beat ourselves up with problems from the past for long enough we end up missing a version of the past that only exists inside our head.

Life is a learning lesson, repeat what is good, don’t repeat the waste. Life is all about moving forward and letting go of the past.Life is about learning, growing and letting go.

And, in the end, the future is much more interesting. We never know what might happen, and that makes it infinitely more fascinating than what already happened.

~alfia♥️

You only live once✨

Hey everyone, so today I’m gonna write about ya well you already know cause you read the title which says YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE.

If we look into it and thinking about it, it’s like a poem, a poem which you are writing and it has to end one day. You are the writer of your own poem. You write what you want and sometimes you write what you want others to read.

We all say, like literally we all say that we only live once and we should make the most out of it. But are we really doing so? Are we?

We want to buy something from a very long time but we don’t because we are saving it for something else, we want to go on a vacation but we are so busy that we can’t find time to do so, we want to pursue something which we want in life something in which we are interested in but we don’t because our parents don’t want us to, because they have other plans for you, we want to do something so bad but we don’t do it.

This is where you and I think ‘you only live once’.

Go buy that one thing what you’ve always wanted, go anywhere any beach or mountain you want to go for a vacation, do what you love in your life, do what you have interest in.

GO OUT, LIVE AND LIVE IT TO THE FULLEST.

Do crazy things with crazy people, enjoy every moment of life, live like you’ve never been alive before, feel everything, do what your hearts wants you to do because after all ‘YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE’.❤️🌈

~alfiya🌻

Life goes on💫

Hey! Long time, no see.

Lifeee!!!

It goes on! No matter if you are ready for it or not. Sometimes you may feel to shut down inside the comfort of your room. But growth happens when you break your comfort zone and reach out. Sometimes you may not feel to reach out even though you know evidently that it’s high time you have to.

What can be done to break the ice!?

Only you can make your move. The first attempt should happen at your end. Life is too short to think too much. Go for it.

You fail in one exam or test or you didn’t score well, you feel bad and when it keeps on happening again and again it kind of breaks you. When someone you care about leaves you, it makes you sad and unhappy. There are times in life when you want to give up, leave everything, you feel a lot of things at the same time. There is sadness, annoyance, depressed and so not.

But you know what? After everything, after all this LIFE GOES ON.

Everything is going to pass, everything will be alright after sometime, you’ll feel okay because it’s going to be okay. Everything in life pass with the passage of time.

~alfia♥️

When everything is falling apart around you🍂

Heylo people, welcome back to another blog of mine. so i’ve been thinking that what is that i should i write about. What is something that everyone goes through and then this topic snapped into my mind.
There are days and seasons when you feel that your whole world is falling apart, crumbling all around you.
Yes, you’re thankful but that’s why it’s so frustrating.Even though you know EVERYTHING that could possibly go wrong isn’t going wrongthere are times when you feel you’re getting your ‘unfair’ share.
Your relationships..
Your family…
Your health…
Your friends..
Your career…
Your life…
May all seem to just unravel at once and not long after youwake up with new hope for each new day… a new challenge slaps you right in theface as soon as you get off your knees from praying.
No one else understands. Everyone has more advice thanencouragement.
Have you ever been there?
Are you there right now?
Let me give you one encouraging reminder…
When everything seems to be falling apart all around you,that means that you’re still standing!
When everything is falling apart around you…YOUR STILL STANDING.

You are still standing, holding it all together. even though it’s tearing you apart, killing you, you are still in hod of it. You are in hold of your life. Your everything✨

~alfia

The choices you make, the decisions you take🦋⚡️

Sometimes it’s really hard to sit back and watch people make the decisions they make, and not want to slap them upside the head. Sometimes I look back at myself from just a few years ago and wonder what the hell I was thinking. Life is so weird in that way where you just go with the flow due to the decisions you make. Just one decision can alter our world, and we have to live with it.

There’s a few people in mind where I wonder if they had chosen differently, would I still be in their life today? Or if they just saw things from my point of view, would they choose differently? I could ponder all day how different life would be if the people in my life had chosen differently, but what I know for sure is, at the end of the day, I don’t have to live with those decisions: they do.

As humans, we are full-on curious about everything, and we question everything as we should. But there are things we cannot control, and one of those things are other people’s decisions. We can try to persuade, and nudge someone in a specific direction, but if it’s not the decision you had hoped them to make, you have to live with it, just like they do, for the rest of your life. We can’t always get what we want, but we live with it, and we move forward.

Personally, I hate to see people leave my life, especially when I strongly feel like our business on this earth isn’t done. If someone does not want to be in my life, then I need to accept that. It was their decision, and that is something THEY will have to live with in their heart, for the rest of their life. Sitting back is hard when you want to slap that person and say, “What are you doing??” But guilt is real, and one day people do realize the mistakes they had made. Unfortunately, it just might take awhile.

“In the end, we only regret the chances we didn’t take, relationships we were afraid to have, and the decisions we waited too long to make.”

Something I regret is losing a friend, because I kept a bad friend stay in my life. She advised me that this other friend was negative and mean, and just plain unhealthy for me. And she was right, and now both of them are not in my life anymore. I had lost a great friend due to the fact that I decided to keep someone close, whom I shouldn’t have. This is something I regret and will live with forever.

But the last thing I am going to say about this is: if you do realize you’ve made a mistake, then do not let pride hold you back from reaching out and trying to undo what you did. You never know if that person will welcome you back with open arms, or it might take a little barrier to get back to where things were, or it just might be too late as well. You never know, but you won’t know unless you make that decision to try. Because at the end of the day, it’s your life, and you have to live with what you’ve decided. Will you regret it???

 

~alfiya♥️